Previously I talked about
how I could write a book on the criticism I've received throughout my
life. A lot of that criticism has come from other people in my life
telling me that I am doing things that do not portray the Christian
image they believe I should go after. Here is a little bit about me,
that some of you might not know:
Some of my best friends are
not Christians. I have friends in my inner-circle who have battled
issues with drugs and alcohol. Some of them still are fighting those
demons. I have friends who have been affiliated with gangs and
selling drugs. My favorite genre of music is hip-hop. I've
experimented with different chemicals in the past. Does that make me
who I am? I am a bad Christian for hanging around with drug using,
misogynistic music listening people? You may have your opinions on
that, but my answer is no. Whether you are or aren't a believer, it
doesn't determine whether or not I will talk to them or try to build
a relationship. Because you want the truth? I've learned lessons on
how to be a better man, a better follower of Christ, and a better
overall friend from some of my friends who have no faith backbone.
Imagine that?
Now I am not celebrating
the fact that they are not believers, but what I am saying is that we
as a society need to stop looking at the cover and start reading the
pages. There are so many layers to every single individual in this
world. Also, I gotta tell you all that I don't necessarily have a
heroic plan to try and convert all my friends to Christ. It
definitely is a priority to discuss Jesus with my friends whenever I
feel the time is right, but if they don't become believers, that's on
them; and it will not make or break our friendship. So while I always
seem to get some flack for what I say or what I do, I'm okay with
that. I feel called to go out and be friends and build relationships
with people from all walks of life. Even the people that the general
society seems to villainize. So the guy who wears the un-turned
baseball hat and listens to Kendrick Lamar and Kanye West is the same
person who attends Church every Sunday, part of his student ministry
team at school, writes poem's, and serves the community. Oh yeah, and
he happens to have some pretty amazing friends. I know I'll get
judged, but that's okay. Remember, I'm just a broken lamp trying
letting God's light shine the way.
They say a picture is worth
1000 words, but I say those 1000 words are more important than one
picture. Look past the cover, you often times will be amazed by what
you'll find.
God Bless,
Andrew
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